If you and your spouse work in the same office you must have already been teased about upcoming Valentine’s Day. It is a special day that should be celebrated even if in a modest way. And considering the average workplace – it should be kept modest.
FOR MEN
With some good-natured office nudging about this day, you are sure to remember Valentine’s Day and get something special for your wife.
You can never go wrong with flowers, but flowers are just the basic prelude to the real gift. It doesn’t have to be big, or flashy or expensive, but it has to come from the heart.
There is a basis for saying that diamonds are a girl’s best friend. If you’re saving up for the real thing for your anniversary, buy a trinket made with her birthstone. Skip the usual earring or neck piece if your wife is confident about experimenting, and get her a delicate waist chain to wear with her sari or anklets. A sari, of course, would be the simplest piece to choose, considering that you cannot go wrong with the size, but instead of getting her the usual kind she normally wears, buy her a Gara or a Marathi sari or a South Indian style that she has never worn before. A woman prizes her sarees like men do their cigars. Remember that while it is great for you to receive something handy and useful around the house, a woman prefers something fun, decorative and something that sends her flying to Cloud Nine, like a pair of sexy shoes or a classy handbag. You may not understand the craving, but give in to it.
If you’re good with your hands, create a labour of love. A book shelf that she has long wanted just so and cannot find in the market, or a shoe rack.
But nothing spells love like being gifted a priceless, long-forgotten heirloom, for women value gifts which carry the weight of a sentiment. Like procuring a pearl necklace which belonged to her great grandmother or the last perfume her mother used before she passed away.
Bear in mind that a woman appreciates the time and energy spent on making the right choice and surprising her only adds to the excitement of opening a present.
FOR WOMEN
There’s simply no excuse for your husband to forget this special day now and he must have already kept your gift ready … at least he should have, and if he hasn’t then you can always pick up some handy tips from How to Kill Your Husband… on how to fix him. But though it is traditionally the man’s job to get the gifts and the woman’s, to receive them, it doesn’t mean that you can’t pick up some nice gifts for your husband or boyfriend too.
Men go for basic stuff that serves a purpose instead of just being easy on the eye, but today with the emergence of the metro sexual man you can get a lot of products that are not only handy but also easy on the eye. Like wallets whose colours diverge from the usual black, brown and navy blue and veer into shades of green, burnt orange, charcoals, and sedate greys – interesting, but still keeping a manly ego in place. Or watches that come with a variety of functions like reminders, calendars, alarms, radio, etc. Men like being gifted things that they can use, rather than just serving an ornamental purpose. They wouldn’t keep a certain clock because it ‘looks good’; they’d rather have something that boosts their image and looks powerful, like a sleek chrome clock that shouts out ‘class’ and ‘I-mean-business’. Or a really thick pen. An i-pod loaded with his favourite songs is a gift that he will love.
While you may love surprises, it is the opposite for men, so don’t make a big hoo-ha about it.
VALENTINE DONT’s
Avoid an office picnic hamper unless you are planning to share it with your colleagues and ready to clean up the mess. Nobody appreciates an employee taking more time than necessary at lunch and no one appreciates finding breadcrumbs in the grooves of the computer keyboard.
Public Display of Affection is a complete no-no – many find it embarrassing, at best, and distasteful, at worst. And no, V-Day is not a good-enough excuse.
Avoid gifting each other hygiene products that imply the other is not clean enough and could cause embarrassment in front of colleagues.
Last, but not the least, there is no need to break the bank for V-Day. Stick to your budget.
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